Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte, Ph.D.


If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

 

如果﹐兒童的生活盡是吹毛求庛﹐那麼他也學會責難別人。

如果﹐兒童的生活充滿敵意﹐他就學會鬥爭。

如果﹐兒童生活在恐懼的環境裡﹐他將學得憂心忡忡。

如果﹐兒童生活在憐憫的環境裡﹐他將學會自憐。

如果﹐兒童生活在充滿嫉妒的環境裡﹐他將學會仇恨。

如果﹐兒童生活在譏諷的環境裡﹐他將學會忸怩不安。

如果﹐兒童生活在羞愧的環境裡﹐他將學到自責。

如果﹐兒童的生活環境充滿鼓勵﹐他就有強烈的自信心。

如果﹐兒童的生活環境充滿容忍﹐他就學得到耐心。

如果﹐兒童的生活環境充滿讚美﹐他就學會欣賞別人。

如果﹐兒童生活在被接納的環境﹐他就學會愛。

如果﹐兒童生活在肯定他的環境﹐他就學會去愛自己。

如果﹐兒童生活在諒解的環境﹐他就學會如何把握人生目標。

如果﹐兒童生活在公平的環境裡﹐他就學會公平判斷。

如果﹐兒童生活在誠實的環境裡﹐他就知道什麼是真理。

如果﹐兒童生活在安全的環境裡﹐他就學會信任自己和別人。

如果﹐兒童生活在友誼的環境裡﹐他將學會世界是個美好的地方。

 
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